Wednesday, 31 May 2006

Best Friend and Good Friends

How do we classify our friends as good friend and best friend? Some says Best Friend stay in our heart forever. Good friend are those that hop in and out in our heart for several of times, reasons, situations and occasions. Some says Best friend is more than a good friend. A best friend would be someone that you trust and care about while a good friend is just a friend that you do things with.
I used to know someone whom I regarded as a friend. One day, she saw my best friend visiting me at my working place. She told me how sad she was as she does not have anyone to call them best Friend or Good Friend, in fact no one to call a friend. Well… at that time I thought she was being too touchy and told her that she was my friend and I was hers.
I’m a person who would go all the way to help a friend but don’t step on my ‘tail’. Unfortunately she stepped more than just my 'tail'! She was all over me. Read my entry on People in your life and she was like those that come into your life for a reason, they act up; we have to make our stand, so I just said hi and bye. With her attitude, I am not surprised she does not have best friend, much less a friend.

But that incident has never stopped me from making friends. I keep a circle of good friends and 2 best friends. One is a person who has been with me since Secondary 3 till today. We’ve been through a lot together. She is always there whenever I need her. She is someone who I really trust and care about. Nusrat, thank you for being my friend and I thank Allah for you.

Another is definitely my dearest hubby. He is my lover, my best friend, my consultant, my adviser, my teddy bear and my banker…heheh..

To all my friends… whether you are a good friends or best friends, I really appreciate your friendship. Thank you for being my friend.
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When we first talked to each other
I knew we would always be friends.
Our friendship has kept on growing
And I'll be here for you to the end.
You listen when I have a problem
And help dry the tears from my face.
You take away my sorrow
And put happiness in its place.
We can't forget the fun we've had
Laughing 'til our faces turn blue.
Talking of things only we find funny
People think we're insane-If they only knew!
I guess this is my way of saying Thanks
For catching me when I fall.
Thanks once again for being such a good friend
And being here with me through it all.

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"If you're alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile... But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me."
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A true friend...
-Accepts you as you are
-believes in you
-calls you only to say "hello"
-doesn't give up with you
-admires all sides of your personality
-forgives your mistakes
-helps you
-encourages you to try it again
-makes a difference in your life
-says nice things about you
-offers his/her support
-understands you
-tells you the truth
-never judges you
-explains things you don't understand
-walks by your side
-calms down your fears
-shouts if necessary, if you don't want to listen
-raises you spirit.
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