I was in a 'merajuk mode' last two days and whenever hb talked to me I would only answer one or two words. Well.... sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit....It was actually because of a trivial problem but I just wanted to keep to myself for a while so most of the time I would be in the computer room while hb with kids.
Every morning before leaving for office, I would sent him to the door and he would hug and kiss me and the kids. But yesterday, I didnt hugged him back when he hugged me nor did I kissed him.
As usual, I would call him at 5.30pm to check if he would be leaving office. But not yesterday. Plus I was busy with the kids - school holiday hokay! So anyway, I did called him at 7.45pm and he was on the way home already. I called him pasal I rindu... Da tak merajuk lagi.
I received him at the door with Aaron in my arms. He came in and kissed Aaron and then turned to kiss my forehead and cheeks... this time longer than the usual pecks and said.."I'm sorry. I dont know what I did or say but I'm really sorry. I just want you to talk to me.." and then he gave me this......
I know he never like me not talking to him the way I always did. When I sulked I would not laugh at his jokes or smile at him)..... he simply gets jittery. Not that I love doing it but sometimes I just need some time alone to keep my cool. So I wanted to laugh when I saw how pitiful he was last night... but I just smiled. Control la sikit.
Memang marah sikit lah.... cause its kind of like he was wasting money on that thing... I actually had wanted something like that but not from OSIM (from those Mail Order ads that you see on tv....dunno what they call it) and you can get them at OG or BHG plus its cheaper. He said...for my wife, price aint matter and I want the best for her. So nak marah pun jadi tak marah.
Whatever it is... Thank you so much dearest darling! I always love you no matter what...
There are no words
to express what I
feel for you.
There are no songs
as beautiful as the music
that fills my soul
when I hear your voice.
There are no roses
as lovely as your smile.
There are no days
brighter than the days
I spend with you.
Nothing moves me
like you do.
You're my light
in the darkness...
And there could never be
words strong enough
to express my love for you.
Perkahwinan pada dasarnya, tidak memisahkan hubungan anak-anak
dengan keluarga masing-masing. Bagi seorang isteri, suaminya adalah
lebih berhak ke atas dirinya jika dibandingkan dengan kedua ibu
bapanya sendiri. Manakala bagi seorang anak lelaki, ibu bapa tetap lebih berhak ke
atas dirinya jika dibandingkan dengan isterinya sendiri. Kewajipan
seorang anak lelaki dalam mentaati orang tuanya telah dijelaskan
dalam sirah Rasulullah yang menceritakan tentang seorang sahabat
yang bernama Al-Khomah Menangislah ibunya. Ibunya dengan penuh rasa
kasih sayang telah mengampunkan segala dosa Al-Khomah. Sejurus
selepas itu, barulah Al-Khomah dapat mengucap Syahadah dan
menghembuskan nafas yang terakhir. Dalam kisah ini, Rasulullah telah
berpesan, " Siapa yang mengutamakan isteri dari ibunya, maka ia akan
terkena laknat Allah dan tidak diterima ibadat fardhu atau
sunatnya." Ingatlah kembali bagaimana payahnya seorang ibu menahan
kesakitan dan kepenatan mengandungkan si anak apatah lagi selepas
melahirkannya, mata yang disengkang menahan rasa mengantuk
semata-mata melayan karenah si anak yang pelbagai. Kesabaran si ibu
menyediakan keperluan si anak dan si ibu menggadaikan nyawa
melahirkannya. Kesimpulan dari itu, tindakan yang saudara ambil
adalah tidak menepati syariat Islam. Keperluan ibu bapa hendaklah
dipenuhi terlebih dahulu sebelum saudara memenuhi tuntutan orang
lain.
Jika anda seorang isteri, pesankan pada suami anda supaya sentiasa mentaati
dan melebihkan ibubapanya daripada anda sendiri. Payah tapi inilah
hakikat hukum. Seorang isteri yang salehah akan selalu mengingatkan
suaminya tentang tanggungjawap suami terhadap ibubapanya sendiri.
Anda tidak harus marah jika suami anda lebih mengutamakan ibubapanya
terutama ibunya lebih daripada anda sendiri, kerana syurga suami anda
terletak pada ibunya, anda pada suami anda. Jika suami anda derhaka atau
melepaskan tanggungjawapnya terhadap ibubapanya sendiri, maka tiada lah
syurga bagi suami anda & tiadalah syurga bagi anda.
Tips for you and me!
Your happiness both as an individual and as a married partner must come from within yourself.
Being married can add to your happiness, but it is not and can not be the primary source of your happiness. Here are strategies to help you create a happier you and a happy marriage.
Talk with your spouse about how the way you are living your lives helps or takes away from what's important to you both.
We are not saying that you can create a happy marriage when there is infidelity, abuse, lying, etc. A dysfunctional marriage can make you unhappy.
If you are in an unhappy marriage, please seek professional counseling so you can make an informed and rational decision as to whether or not your marriage is worth saving.
