MAIDLESS! This is the 2nd week I am without a maid.
Malas bebenor nak citer pasal maid ni. Betul punya malas... But I have decided that I am not taking any maid at the moment. Maybe next year ke... next 2 year ke... dunno lah.
At the moment, I am happy and managing my time well. Unlike when our good maid left for home in July. I was kancheong. I could not manage the housework, the work and the kids. But this time, Alhamdulillah I am able to do it. InsyaAllah things will be better for me.
I have thought about it many times, abt getting a new maid but at the end of it all.. i have decided... ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! NOT WORTH IT!!!! BUAT BAIK PUN TAK GUNA PAT DORANG NI TAUUUU!!! hahahahah.
So I rather use that money to give my baby an education. ekkekeke. We registered him in the Montesorri Integrated Program class for 3 hours (Monday to Friday) where our money will be berbaloi... wakakaka.
Today is his 5th lessons. He is picking up fast and adjusting himself well in class... the only one in class... actually. But he gets to mix with older kids - 3 to 5 yrs old for other activities.So every morning, I will sent Ashraf and Aaron to school. Go home to cook, clean, check my emails and ahemm.. today I had a short nap.. hahah. Picked Aaron up from school at 11.30am and then Ashraf at 12noon. Went to coffee-shop, bought chicken rice and fed them before sending Ashraf to his Montessori Class at 12.30pm. Went home, showered Aaron and put him to sleep. I am not complaining... I am contented.
Amirul and Azirul are back now from school. Showered, prayed and finished lunch. Now doing homework while I check and reply emails. Later at 3.15pm will go pick Ashraf from school. This will be my chores everyday. Yes, I do feel tired but no heart ache. Weekend, boys and hb wash the toilets.
I am doing my own cleaning, washing and ironing. At my own pace. Whenever I like... as long as my house is clean... I am happy. I pray that Allah gives me the strength and health to do what I like... for my family.
Friends, please pray for me too... thanks!!!!
24 comments:
insya allah Kak...You can do it....
Yes!!You can do it...
InsyaAllah you can do it sis. Lagipun ur boys pun dah besar kan except Aaron. Memang penat tapi lebih penat layan kerenah maid yang buat perangai. Me too give up on taking maid long ago. Balik kerja buat kerja rumah and masak. Badan tak larat tapi hati lebih senang. hehehe
InsyaAllah... Lyndy BOLEH... (self motivate)..heheh
YES! YES! IF RINA CAN DO.. LYNN ALSO CAN...LOLZ
Mmg betul sis... penat tu penat. tapi puas hati. No extra person to take care of, to cook for, to worry for and no extra mouth to feed. hehehehe...
Most important kids are well taken care of.
Insya-Allah you can face it without The Maids....:-)
Insya Allah.. you can do it. I'm happy for you sis. If given the choice I don't want to employ any more maid. Dah lah tak tahan with kerenah maid, now have to layan kerenah maid agency. Till now
I didn't get the replacement maid which I have chosen on the 21 Dec. One after another excuses they gave me. Sigh....
Dont worry Sis, you can do it .!
I did ..12 years without maid .......
Lynn boleh !!!
Sure u can sis... InsyaAllah.
Sure a bliss and peaceful to be able to manage without a maid at home... InsyaAllah, my time will come too ;)
InsyaAllah... The Maids ni smua menyeramkan and mengeramkan..hahahahha
Alahai... same here sis. Maid agency pun menyakitkan hati. Nak duit tapi tak nak work properly. Dah naik malas dgn dorang ni. Y dont you change to another agency? Heard that Aza Maid Agency (pat Kembangan Plaza) is good and cheap... dunno betul ke tak... but try lah.
good for you sis.
mmg kalau tak ada baby I can manage. I did that when I was in Penang.. alone lagi. But now since I can put Aaron to school... it's the best choice to be maidless...kekekeke.
InsyaAllah...
Mmg peaceful without the stranger. Mmg lah stranger ni yg kemas dan bersihkan rumah and jaga anak kita tapi more often than not...they are the ones that cause us to have heart attack! Shai, bukan kita pat sini jer face their nonsense. My friends from Indonesia also... lagi country ppl. Worst dorang kasi attitude problem. Haizzz...
lagi seronok without a maid...even penat namun tak stress or sakit hati dgn dorang....
go kak lyndy..go..go.. all the way... I am sure you can do it.....
gd decision Lyn..if my 2 sistas bole survived w/o maid with 4 kids insyaallah u can..gd idea u send Aaron to sch gd $$ invested kan.tak worried leave them behind with ur maid.tak makan darah kan ingatkan ur maid..as time goes by, ur kids will learn to survive and independent..now my sista anak2 dorang dah matured n best part the boys are learning to cook managing the hse while their mom goes to work hehehehe..besssh kan! nie insyaallah my sis nak gi haji since they all very independent now..:-)
No worries my prayers with you Lyn. It felt so good right without a maid. I believe you can do without a maid, managed your time for housework, kids and yourself for sure you will feel no stress at all.
that is the motivation to keep me going...biar penat hati tak sakit. Hati tak bimbang and wire jantung pun tak putus...hahahaha.
InsyaAllah.... doakan i yerrr
InsyaAllah...
MMg betul sis, tiap kali kluar rumah kita bimbangkan anak anak ngan maid. Tiap kali dorang yg kluar rumah kita pun bimbang pasal dorang. Da lah.. never ending story.
Yes, kids will learn to be independent. Lagi lagi boys.. nanti pi NS teruklah dorang. Now they have to make their own bed... without fail. Kalau maid ada.. kenkadang skip.. action lupa. now cannot lupa. Siap suara tarzan!!!
And lepas makan must must wash their own plates. Wash their own shoes (even when maid was here), wash their toilet, some times they will sweep and help me mop the floor. And fold the clothes if I am busy cooking or with Aaron.
Slowly but surely...they will get used to all this. Cooking blum lagi...heheheh... sooonnnn
Thanks sis. It surely feels good without a problematic maid. Stress tu mmg tak bleh lari.. but lebih baik dari stress kerana maid. hahah.
Pray that Allah always bless me with health and strength. Amin.
This my last replacement with them. I tak leh go other agency if not my advance pay with them they forfeited 2mths. sabar ajerlah jawabnya.... thks for the info.
takpe Lyn..insyaallah u will manage and ur kids will learn along the way..pelan2 dah bagus dorang nak tolong..like my anak buah too pampered semua maid buat..susah kan camtu..
boys will be boys ok like my sis 3 boys alhamdulillah dah besar2 nie tak sangka pandai masak and buat pizza..wakakakakaka..my sis mcm u jugak jadi tarzan wakakaka...now dah slow down bole gi makan angin..ur turn will come dun wori dear *hugs*
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