JANGAN MENGELUH ..........

Kita selalu Bertanya.... ......... .......dan Al-Quran sudah menjawabnya. ......... .......

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU DIUJI?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman," ("I am full of faith to Allah") sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji org2 yg sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui org2 yg benar dan, sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui org2 yg dusta." -Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU TAK DAPAT APA YG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN? QURAN MENJAWAB "Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesua tu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui."

- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya. "

- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA RASA FRUST?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Jgnlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan jgnlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah org2 yg paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu org2 yg beriman."

- Surah Al-Imran ayat 139

KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan) , dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah (be fearfull of Allah The Almighty) kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan). "

KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk"

- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45

KITA BERTANYA : APA YANG AKU DAPAT DRPD SEMUA INI?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari org2 mu'min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga utk mereka... ?

- Surah At-Taubah ayat 111

KITA BERTANYA : KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?

QURAN MENJAWAB

"Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain dari Nya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal. "

- Surah At-Taubah ayat 129

KITA BERKATA : AKU TAK DAPAT TAHAN!!!

QURAN MENJAWAB

"... ....dan jgnlah kamu berputus asa dr rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dr rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir."

- Surah Yusuf ayat 12

The BBQ...

These are the pictures taken at the BBQ cum Birthday celebrations for my dearest hubby, Amirul, Azirul n Aiman.

We had loads of fun!!!! Or should I say... They had fun and not me! I was in pain most of the time...

Cool Slideshows

Hubby left for New Delhi yesterday. He will be away for 3 days and be back on Saturday morning. I really hope that after a good rest we could all go to Mrs Latino's Potluck Gathering at Pasir Ris Beach. This morning hb smsed to tell me that it's getting harder for him to be away from me and the kids. Hmm... It's not easy for us either, more so for me.

Oh yeah! Today is Amirul's 10th Birthday! And yesterday was hubby's and I almost forgot to wish him...heheh.. apa punya wife ni?? To both of my love... May Allah always love and protect you and shower you with His blessings.

Cher - Strong Enough

Wajah - Jaclyn Victor

jaclyn victor gemilang

Love this song n the singer

Alphabet of Happiness...

A- Accept
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B- Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

C- Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

D -Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E - Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

F- Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G - Grow
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H - Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I- Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J - Journey

Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.

K - Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L - Love
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

M-Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N-Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O-Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.

P-Play
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q-Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.

R-Relax

Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S-Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T-Try

Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U-Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.

V- Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

W-Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X-X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y-Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.

Z-Zoom

Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

Alleycats - Nota Terakhir

513 - Safura - Sedalam Mana Cintamu (Msia)

I simply love this song.... yok karaoke!!!

Create a Happy Marriage....

Tips for you and me!

A Happy Marriage Comes From Within

One of the myths about marriage is that marriage will make you happy. That's not true.

Your happiness both as an individual and as a married partner must come from within yourself.

Being married can add to your happiness, but it is not and can not be the primary source of your happiness. Here are strategies to help you create a happier you and a happy marriage.

 

A Few Strategies for Creating a Happier You and a Happy Marriage

• Like yourself.
  
  
  
• Be yourself.
  
  
  
• Be nice to one another.
  
  
  
• Show mutual respect.
  
  
  
• Be supportive of each other.
  
  
  
• Agree to have fair fights.
  
  
  
• Each evening, share with one another three happy things that you noticed during the day. Talk about why these moments of happiness occurred.
  
  
  
• Both of you write down how you want to be remembered.

Talk with your spouse about how the way you are living your lives helps or takes away from what's important to you both.

Make a list of things that make you happy such as a sunny day, a hot bath, a child's laugh. Create ways to include these happy times in your life more often.

Do a random act of kindness not only for a stranger each day, but also for one another. Don't talk about these acts of kindness with one another. They are for your own personal self-esteem and growth.

Compliment and affirm your spouse.

Word of Caution

We are not saying that you can create a happy marriage when there is infidelity, abuse, lying, etc. A dysfunctional marriage can make you unhappy.

If you are in an unhappy marriage, please seek professional counseling so you can make an informed and rational decision as to whether or not your marriage is worth saving.

A Dedication from Hubby

I love this song.... A song hubby dedicates to me....The song that made me fell in love with him....

Disney Movie-Cant take my eyes off you

Two Hearts

Only two hearts can sing
with all the joy life brings,
inspiring hope in
the soul's depths,
scaling mountains
never climbed yet,
flying beyond
the star's reach
and discovering beauty
in the light of each,
seeking rainbows
beyond the pall.
Only two hearts in love,
have it all--
two hearts like ours.

Whitney Houston - I Have Nothing

Nobody Loves Me Like You Do

Just for You dearest hubby!

 

Every day I think about you,
and I yearn to see your smile.

Though I miss you terribly
I can feel your love,
across the miles.

Promise me that our love
will never fade or disappear,
but will always shine as bright as the sun.

From the bottom of my heart,
I swear that
You'll always be
the only one!

 

i am special